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You know the pain of not being able to have children. But you also know the joy of finally being able to conceive through IVF. Now that your family is complete, what happens to your remaining embryos? Consider donating them to another couple. Through donation, you’re bringing joy to another couple. We give your embryos the best chance for life in a loving, stable family. Meet one of those families in the video below.
This is a way to give the opportunity for life. Plus, you’re sharing the blessing of children with others. You will have input in the family selection process. The National Embryo Donation Center is a non-profit organization that helps both embryo donors and recipients.
Start your application and help someone start a family today. There are no fees for those donating two or more embryos!
What is the process?
You will be asked to fill out an application, provide some medical and genetic history, and have some minimal testing. During the process, you may even decide which family will be privileged to adopt your embryos. You may also decide to what degree of contact, if any, you wish to have with the adopting family. During this same time period, you will be instructed to contact and inform the clinic where your frozen embryos are stored that you are donating your embryos to another infertile couple through the NEDC. They will probably require you to sign a medical record release form and a waiver/release of liability form. Once this paperwork is completed, the NEDC can then make arrangements directly with the clinic for the embryos to be shipped to our center, usually at no cost to you. The donation process can take about 9 months from application to shipment of your embryos to the NEDC.
Why choose the NEDC?
Many donate embryos through the NEDC because of the peace of mind provided by our home study requirement, which means your embryos will go to a stable, healthy family. Many choose to adopt through the NEDC because of our superior pregnancy rates (54% in the most recent reporting year). And all are reassured by our nearly two-decade-long track record and commitment to keep strengthening the NEDC long-term, ensuring the ability of embryo donors and recipients to receive and share information in the future.
How do we get started?
Fill out our online application. You will be notified your application was received by email. Also, a follow-up packet of consents and forms to be completed and returned will be sent to you via email. You may call the National Embryo Donation Center toll free at 1-866-585-8549 with questions. We will happily provide you additional information and answer your questions. Don’t delay. Give these young lives a chance and provide hope to couples longing for a child.
Where should I send my embryos for donation?
If you’re thinking about donating your embryos to the NEDC or another embryo donation agency, and are worried about ongoing storage fees, the NEDC has no storage fees for embryo donors. (There is one exception: If you are donating a single embryo, which is harder to place with an adopting family, you will be asked to pay a one-time $600 fee to the NEDC. This is to help cover our costs for acquiring and caring for the embryo.) Your embryos will be shipped to the NEDC’s onsite laboratory free of charge, where they will be well cared for until a recipient family is found.
You can begin your donation by submitting your online donor application or call us Toll-Free: 866-585-8549
Once your online application and contact information has been received we will email you a follow-up packet of consents and forms to complete and return to the NEDC. Once all the follow-up paperwork is received back by the NEDC, we will make arrangements to have your embryos shipped to our clinic. You retain complete decision-making power over your embryos.
If I donate embryos, what is the likelihood they will be adopted?
Our goal is to have all embryos adopted, and we will care for all until they are adopted. We are in particular need of embryos from minority ethnic backgrounds as they are currently in low supply and are most likely to be adopted quickly. The overwhelming majority of our embryos are Caucasian, and all need good homes regardless of ethnicity. We gladly accept and care for embryos of all ethnic backgrounds.
What is the chance of embryos successfully implanting?
The national average for pregnancy from donated embryos is 50 percent and the national average live-birth rate is 40 percent, according to the Center for Disease Control (CDC). The CDC collects data annually from all U.S. assisted reproductive technology clinics and compiles all their reproductive efforts, including number of IVF cycles, number of live births and number of donated embryo transfers, for the past year.
The NEDC’s overall pregnancy rate per transfer is 55 percent and live-birth rate is 45 percent. Not all embryos survive the freeze/thaw process, though approximately 75 percent do, and thawing of your embryos may not lead to a transfer. However, this still offers the greatest hope for both your frozen embryos and many infertile couples.
Is there a cost to donate embryos?
There are generally not any fees for the donating/genetic parents. The adopting families cover all costs. There is one exception: If you are donating a single embryo, which is harder to place with an adopting family, you will be asked to pay a one-time $600 fee to the NEDC. This is to help cover our costs for acquiring and caring for the embryo.
What types of donation are available?
The NEDC can arrange an open or anonymous donation between you and the adopting couple. If open communication is selected and once the donor and recipient families have approved each other, the arrangement is then mediated by a third party and finalized. All mediation fees will be paid by the adopting family.
If I change my mind, can I get my embryos back?
The answer is yes, IF your donated embryos have not been matched or thawed and transferred. Then you can send a written request for the return of your embryos and must reimburse the NEDC for all of the lab and shipping fees we have paid, as well as $400/year for storage. You can then pay a shipper directly to have your embryos shipped to the fertility center of your choice.
Who can adopt?
We work hard to assure our donors that their embryos will be placed in healthy, stable homes with loving parents.
We are not able to make any exceptions to these requirements. If you meet the requirements, our dedicated staff will help prepare you every step of the way for the exciting journey ahead.
Can I decide to whom my embryos will go?
In an open relationship the donor and recipient families must approve each other. The open arrangement is then mediated by a third party so that all parties involved are clear on the level of communication they will share. If you choose to donate anonymously you are able to set certain stipulations for the recipient couple, such as, geographic location, religious preference, and education levels. The NEDC will honor your requests by selecting an anonymous family to receive your embryos. The National Embryo Donation Center reserves the right to place certain restrictions on the adopting parents.
Are the adopting couples screened?
Yes, they are screened for infectious diseases, general and reproductive health, and their ability to successfully parent children. All adopting families must undergo and pass a home study in the state in which they reside.
Will we be responsible for our embryos or have parental rights?
Prior to donation, you will sign a form relinquishing your rights to your embryos and any children who are born from them. Your relinquishment does not officially begin until the embryos are physically transferred in to the recipient wife, at that time the adopting family receives all rights.
Could the children from the embryo donation inadvertently meet their siblings and reproduce?
In our large society, the risk is negligible. Donating your embryos to someone in a different state will further minimize the risk.
Do I have any legal liability?
What will happen to my embryos if I choose not to donate them?
Not making a decision is not a viable option! Even though embryos have an indefinite storage life, you do not have an indefinite life span, and by not making a decision, someone — very probably the living genetic siblings of those embryos — will eventually have to make it for you. Although you may be struggling with the idea of donating your embryos to another couple, your decision to help others have children is the most caring and compassionate option to choose.
We know you probably have a lot of questions about the embryo donation process. We’ve complied some helpful resources here for your benefit but, if you have any questions or need additional information, please do not hesitate to contact us toll free at 866-585-8549.
We work hard to guarantee embryos are placed in good homes. Help to start a family today by beginning your donation application!
We understand your desire to complete your family, and embryo adoption allows you an adoption alternative to experience pregnancy and childbirth.